When we are making the journey through this life, we will come across people, that may offer what I like to term a glimpse, meaning that they will come into your life, for a brief period of time, and then they will leave just as quickly as they came.
I never intend on being a glimpse in someone else's life, but that may not be what fate and destiny have in store for either myself, or the one in which, whose life, I have been blessed enough to be a part of.
I find a lasting sense of happiness, in knowing that while I got the opportunity to play a part in the life of another, that I played the best part I possibly could, despite whatever circumstances may have been in play at the time, whether it be poor health, mental, or physical, or just an over all feeling of loss, I never seek to burden others with whatever issues I may be going through at the time.
We all choose to walk this path in our own unique way, which is what makes it such a wonderful experience, we all have something different to bring to the table. I am so very blessed to have in my life, the things that I do, and I am so very grateful to have all that I do, I am happy that I have a car, I am happy that I have an apartment, I am happy that I have a job, I am happy to have the family I do, and very fortunate to have the friends I do, while I know they have busy lives, I am not going to infringe on their personal space, but bringing whatever I have going on, to their table.
Myself and 3 of my dearest friends were sitting around a bonfire last august, for my birthday, and I felt that sharp wind of change blow through the area we chose to make the fire, and I knew, deep within my spirit, that the frienships I perceived in front of me, were beginning to unravel, and that we would not have time like this, together again. While I was processing all of this information at the time it was gleaned, I knew that none of my friends had felt what I had at that moment, but that was ok, because I knew how important that night truly was, and that is what truly mattered.
We never know how significant of a role, any one person may play in our life, so never dismiss anyone, as though they do not hold value, in fact, who knows, maybe the next time someone asks you if you could spare some change, they are actually a multibillionaire, who is looking for someone with a kind heart to share such a fortune with, someone who would pay such a good deed forward, just as they are doing.
Never Dismiss anyone, whether you know them or not, because maybe your genuine interest in whatever it is they are going through, is the one miracle they experience that day, that gives them the hope and inspiration to live for one more day, and make that last hurdle that we all know of, that makes those days, where we are in constant misery, seem as though they are not meant to be lived. You could deliver the bone mending words, that save someone's life. So before you seek to wave your hand, and let the next person pick up the act of kindness you are dismissing with a wave of your hand, take some time, and consider what can come from such a choice.
Never Be Dismissive.
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Kaylon Forsyth
I lost my wife back in 2019 and I started this as an outlet for my emotional expression in regards to the pain from the loss, it has helped me substantially since that time, and I have put great effort into all of my efforts since then.
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